Everyone’s Fast. Only the Trusted Win.
In the Age of AI, speed is no longer a competitive edge. Trust is.
Everyone’s Fast Now. So What?
Every day, I get emails written by robots pretending to be humans.
They’re fast. Personalized. Slick.
They say things like:
“Hey Ryan! Just wanted to bubble this up to the top of your inbox again.”
“Would love 15 minutes to talk synergies.”
“We use AI to help people like you save time…”
I can smell it a mile away. So can you.
That’s the thing—we’re all fast now.
AI writes the outreach. Calendars book the meetings. Automations follow-up. Sales teams measure “speed to lead” as if it were gospel.
But what happens when speed is the standard?
What happens when everyone responds within five minutes?
You stop being impressed.
You start asking: Can I trust this person?
And that’s when everything changes.
The AI Arms Race Has Flattened the Field
Let’s be clear: AI matters.
Speed matters. Data matters. Good sales systems matter.
But those are no longer unfair advantages. They’re expected.
According to InsideSales.com, reaching a lead within 5 minutes makes you 21x more likely to qualify that lead than waiting 30 minutes.
However, that statistic has a caveat: it only applies if your competitor isn’t already doing it.
Today? They are.
AI has made speed easy. Accessible. Table stakes.
So the playing field flattens.
The differentiator isn’t how fast you follow up—it’s how fast you’re trusted.
Speed to Trust > Speed to Close
We’ve been trained to chase “speed to close.”
But here’s the uncomfortable truth:
If you haven’t earned trust, it doesn’t matter how fast you move.
You’re just accelerating toward a dead end.
Trust isn’t soft.
It’s not woo-woo.
It’s conversion fuel.
🔹 Trust shortens the sales cycle.
🔹 Trust gets you callbacks.
🔹 Trust earns you pricing power.
🔹 Trust turns one deal into ten referrals.
And trust moves fast, too—faster than most realize.
A study from Princeton found that people form judgments about trustworthiness in less than 50 milliseconds after seeing a face. That's faster than a blink.
Your tone of voice, your energy, your authenticity—it all hits instantly.
If you feel “off,” no funnel will save you.
5 Levers of Fast Trust
The question becomes:
How do we build trust faster than the competition?
Here’s what works today:
1. Show Your Face
People trust people, not logos.
If you're hiding behind faceless automation, you're just another AI echo.
Video > text. Voice > scripts.
Make eye contact. Speak directly. Be human.
Even a grainy iPhone video builds more trust than a polished funnel with no soul.
2. Tell the Truth
Say “no” to bad fits.
Be honest about limitations.
Don’t overpromise.
Truth is magnetic because it's rare.
As Warren Buffett said:
“It takes 20 years to build a reputation and five minutes to ruin it.”
People can feel when you’re selling versus when you’re sorting.
Sort. You’re not for everyone—and that’s the point.
3. Tell Stories
Stories transfer emotion. They show your values without having to list them.
Want proof?
You probably don’t remember the 21x conversion stat from earlier.
But you do remember the feeling of getting pitched by a robot.
Use stories to say:
“I’ve been where you are.”
“Here’s how I learned.”
“This is why I care.”
Stories build bridges. Trust walks across them.
4. Serve Before You Sell
People don’t want to be pitched—they want to be understood.
Show them you get their pain before you offer a solution.
Validate before you prescribe.
Empathy earns permission.
Permission earns attention.
Attention earns trust.
This is true whether you’re closing deals, building content, or leading a team.
5. Give a Shit
Yeah, I said it.
Actually give a damn about solving their problem—not just closing the sale.
This means:
You might have to walk away from the deal.
You might send them to a competitor.
You might spend time helping them for free.
But here’s the twist:
That’s exactly what makes you unforgettable.
When you truly care—when you prioritize the person over the pitch—you build the kind of trust that turns into referrals, testimonials, and long-term loyalty.
You may lose the sale today.
But you’ll gain something far more valuable: belief.
And belief… that pays dividends you can’t even measure.
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The Real ROI of Trust
When you’re trusted:
You don’t have to shout.
You don’t have to discount.
You don’t have to chase.
Trust is a flywheel. It compounds.
It moves faster with every honest conversation, every helpful post, every solved problem.
Speed to trust becomes reputation velocity.
That’s how you go from being another voice in the inbox… to being the name they remember when it matters.
The Rub
If speed is now the baseline, trust is the competitive advantage.
Not just trust eventually. Trust fast.
Because the companies, creators, and leaders who win in this era will be the ones who can say:
“Yes, we’re fast. But more importantly… we’re real.”
This is the way.
Hanley
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